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Artist: Crush, Han Sang WonTitle: SKIPAlbum: SKIP
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Aug 23, 2016 · SKIP - Crush with Han Sang Won / Yoojung Lee Choreography - YouTube. 1MILLION Dance Studio. 26.3M subscribers. Subscribed. 31K. 2M views 7 years ago. 원밀리언에서 선공개 되는 Crush의 신곡, 'SKIP'! 모든 음원...
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- Overview
- Adjusting Your Mindset
- Getting Your Crush Out of Your Life
- Moving On
Are you finding it hard to go an hour -- or even a minute -- without thinking of your crush? If you know that things aren't working out with your crush, then thinking about them constantly is only going to bring you more pain and heartache. The good news is that if you put your mind to it, you can spend more time doing the things you love, being with the people you care about, and loving your life again. It can take time, but with enough determination, you'll be forgetting what your crush looked like in no time at all.
Get your emotions out! Write down all the reasons you're sad or bitter to identify your feelings, then tear up that paper to start moving forward.
Remind yourself of your crush's negative qualities to make them seem less appealing, and focus on your own positive qualities to remind yourself that you're worthy.
Stop talking to your crush, and avoid them in person, if possible. Then, to get them out of your head, talk about something other than them, like your hobbies.
If you want to forget your crush, then the first thing you have to do is to admit that you have strong feelings for this person. If you’re in denial about how much your crush means to you, then you’ll just keep all of those intense feelings inside instead of letting them go. Take the time to cry, to talk to a close friend about it, to admit how much you’ve been hurt, and to acknowledge your feelings.
Write down what you’re feeling, if that helps. If you don’t want to open up to a friend, opening up to a journal can make you feel better, too.
If you’re going to be upset for a little while because things didn’t work out with your crush, that’s okay. Let your friends know that you’re going to lie low for a little while and don’t force yourself to be super social if you’re just not feeling it.
That being said, after a few weeks or so, it’s time to stop wallowing and to start having some form of social interaction. If you spent too much time being alone with your feelings, you may only feel worse.
Stop talking to your crush.
It may sound obvious that you should stop talking to your crush if you want to forget them, but chances are that you may still be talking to your crush even if you know it’s not good for you. You don’t have to be downright rude, but you should make a point of avoiding your crush and not talking to them as much as you can. Stop texting, calling, or just stopping and saying hi to your crush. The sooner you stop seeing your crush and hearing their voice, the sooner you’ll be able to really get your crush out of your life.
If you have to be in the same place as your crush, like a class, for example, then you should be nice and polite without making an effort. There’s no need to be mean and it won’t make you feel better.
You could delete any old texts from them, and even block their number from your phone.
Stop talking about your crush, too.
Though talking to a close friend about forgetting your crush can help you move on, if you talk about your crush to every single person you come across or every mutual friend you have, then you won’t be feeling better any time soon. You don’t have to be denial about your feelings, but if you keep mentioning your crush, you’ll only be opening up old wounds and reminding yourself of the very thing that hurt you.
Lean on your friends and family.
One great way to forget about your crush is to spend as much time as possible with the people who mean the most to you. Your friends and family have been there for you through thick and thin and they will make you feel better about your romantic situation just by being there for you. Though your social routine doesn’t have to be so jam packed that you don’t have a minute to yourself, you should make an effort to spend more time with your loved ones, so you can be grateful for all of the positive relationships in your life – instead of obsessing over the one relationship that didn’t pan out.
Don’t spend your Friday or Saturday nights alone or you’ll wish you were with your crush. Hang out with your girl or guy friends instead, and you’ll be having so much fun that you’ll forget all about your crush.
Spending time doing something that means a lot to you is a sure fire way to banish any thoughts about your crush from your mind. You should spend more time pursuing your favorite hobby, whether it’s running or painting, exercising, reading, or just doing whatever makes you happy. Maybe you think you’re too busy to make time for the things you care about. If that’s the case, then make the time by cutting something else out of your life; if you’re committed to pursuing your passion, then all thoughts of your crush will slowly drift away.
May 14, 2024 · 1. Distance yourself from them. One of the most effective ways to help you get over your crush is by distancing yourself from them. Minimize any contact or the potential for contact so that you can get over them without having any lingering ties that could upset you or reinforce your feelings for them.
Jun 27, 2024 · We've all experienced the heartache of trying to get over a crush. It's hard enough when you only have to see them occasionally, but it can feel nearly impossible when you run into them every day in class or at work. Here's the good...
Jan 2, 2020 · Dealing with a crush that just don't quit? We'll break down how to get over it and the steps that will help you move on.
