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Jun 24, 2024 · To get a girl, start by establishing a friendship with her by engaging in small talk. When speaking with her, talk with confidence and ask questions when she brings up her interests.
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- Approaching Girls. Approach a girl indirectly. This will allow you to engage her in a conversation without making it too obvious you are interested.
- Meeting Girls. Find girls at popular places like malls, gyms, coffee shops and bookstores. Go somewhere that suits your personality. Not only are you more likely to get a girl who shares your interests, but you will feel more comfortable approaching or talking to them in a familiar environment.
- Getting Girls to Like You. Be confident. You want to be confident, not cocky. The best ways to do this are with your body language. Body language will tell a girl a lot of things about you, so pay attention to how you present yourself.
- To attract a woman, don’t look for her validation. The first thing you need to understand is that you should never look for validation from the girl you want to hook up with.
- Smile (when you approach her) When approaching a woman you want to seduce, smile. Whether you are approaching a girl who’s alone or with her friends. Whether you are approaching a girl in a nightclub, in the street, or on public transportation.
- Look right into her eyes when you talk to her. To effectively communicate your thoughts and emotions, look the girl right in her eyes when talking to her.
- Make her understand (quickly) that there’s something going on between you. Like a lot of guys, you’ve probably already tried to hit on a girl who sees you as no more than a friend.
- Make Eye Contact First. A lot of times, men feel they have to ‘warm up’ to approach a girl: they’ll practice their body language, and rehearse what they’ll say (both things I actually don’t recommend… see tip #s 2 and 4).
- Just say ‘Hey’ via: Unsplash / JuniperPhoton. If you spend too much time rehearsing your approach, it’s easy to begin to think that you need to be nothing less than totally original.
- Naturally Boost Your Confidence & Attractiveness With Your Posture. I mentioned the importance of this in our article on approach anxiety… because it honestly is the best (most powerful and natural) thing you can do for your confidence and attractiveness.
- Talk About Your Common Interests. Now… I know what you’re thinking: How the hell do you know if you and this woman you just met have a common interest?
- Stop trying to get a girlfriend. The first step to getting a girlfriend is to stop trying.
- Make her notice you. Wear items of clothing and jewellery that attract women and start conversations. Leather jackets, jewellery and tailored suits are a great place to start.
- Get ready to approach her. Before you approach her get rid of any other excuses that are stopping you in your tracks, for example, assuming she won’t be interested in you if you’ve never had a girlfriend.
- Approach her with confidence. Now that you’re ready, it’s time to approach her. Smile, relax your body language and approach in a non confrontational way like you’d do when you’re in Wallmart asking a shelf stacker where the butter’s at.
Jun 24, 2024 · While you can't actually force anyone to like you, there are simple ways to make yourself more interesting to girls. With a little effort on your part, plus a good dose of self-belief and a willingness to go out on a limb, you just may...
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May 21, 2019 · Learn how to start and maintain a conversation with a girl you like, how to deal with nervousness, and how to increase attraction by being non-reactive and matching investment. This article by a dating coach offers practical advice and examples on how to talk to girls.
