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Nov 8, 2014 · Provided to YouTube by JiveHow To Catch A Bitch · Celly Cel · E-40 · Mugzi · T-PupHeat 4 Yo Azz℗ 1994 Sick Wid It RecordsReleased on: 1994-09-27Associated P...
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You've noticed your spouse is acting different lately and something feels off between you. As painful as it is, you've started to suspect they might be cheating on you. If you believe your spouse is cheating, the best thing you can do is confront them about it directly.
But if you'd like to have a little evidence first, read on to find out how to legally spy on your spouse.
This article is based on an interview with our licensed psychotherapist, Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW.
Check out the full interview here.
Look for chats, photos, or other files on your spouse's phone or computer. The browser history and previous GPS destinations can help too.
Make an unannounced visit to your spouse at work if you suspect they're cheating on you with someone they work with.
Check your spouse's phone for clues.
If you can get your hands on your spouse's phone, you can poke around in their text apps and messages to see who they're talking to. But keep in mind that if they are cheating, they probably won't leave the evidence right out in the open. You still might be able to find something that at least points you in one direction and gives you more of an idea of where to look next.
For example, if you see that your spouse is making a lot of calls to a phone number that isn't listed in their contacts, that could be someone they're trying to keep secret. Copy the phone number so you can do a reverse lookup and see whose number it is.
As tempting as it can be, don't install trackers or spyware on your spouse's phone. Since it's their personal property, it's illegal for you to track activity on it without their consent—even if you're technically paying for the phone.
Make a surprise visit to your spouse at work.
Cheating spouses frequently hide affairs by claiming they have to work late or that they have a looming deadline on a big project. But in reality, they might not even be at work at all.
This gives you an opportunity to play the kind, caring spouse. For example, if your spouse says they're working late, you might bring a home-cooked dinner to their office to surprise them.
If they work near a place you visit often, such as the gym, you might stop by randomly and just say that you happened to be in the neighborhood and thought you'd say hi.
Place a GPS tracker in your spouse's car.
These little devices can be hidden from view and will track the vehicle so you'll always know where your spouse is driving. Be careful, though—only do this if your name is also on the title of the vehicle.
Choose the platform your spouse is most active on—that means you'll have the best chance of interacting with them. Include enough details to make your fake profile believable, with photos you think your spouse will find attractive. Make sure you open the account using a new email address that your spouse doesn't know about.
It's never a good idea to steal someone else's photos. If possible, enlist the help of a friend your spouse doesn't know.
If you have to, opt for no face shots. When you interact with your spouse under your fake profile, you can tell them that you're married and have to be discreet (which isn't even a lie).
Follow your spouse's profile with your fake profile.
When your profile's set up and seems authentic enough, it's time to follow your spouse. Don't worry about sending a message at this stage—just get yourself on their radar.
You have to be patient in the beginning and establish your profile, otherwise, your spouse will likely assume it's a fake and ignore it or even block it.
Regardless of what you find, have a serious, sit-down conversation with your spouse. Level with them about your suspicions and be honest about the steps you took to try to catch them cheating. If you found any evidence, present it to them and give them a chance to explain their side of the story.
Cheating doesn't always signify the end of a relationship. If you both can get honest and talk about what was missing in your relationship and what you want to change, it can also become a new beginning.
Don't expect, though, that you will immediately be able to trust your spouse again. Building trust back takes time, so be patient.
Go to therapy individually and as a couple.
If you didn't find any evidence of cheating and your spouse swears they're being faithful, it's
a good idea to go to therapy. Your suspicions indicate you have some serious trust issues that a professional can help you with. On the other hand, if your spouse was cheating, individual and couple's therapy can help the two of you find a way forward (whether that's together or separately).
Apr 17, 2021 · Sure, you can follow them with a rented drone, slap a GPS tracker on their vehicle, or track their location on apps like Snapchat — not bad ideas, those — but there are other ingenious ways to...
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Nov 7, 2014 · Provided to YouTube by IngroovesHow To Catch A Bitch · Celly Cel ft E-40, Mugzi, T-PupHeat 4 Yo AzzReleased on: 1995-09-27Writer: Celly CelWriter: E-40Writer...
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- Start by asking neutral questions. By asking someone basic, nonthreatening questions, you are able to observe a response baseline. Ask them about the weather, their plans for the weekend, or anything that would elicit a normal, comfortable response.
- Find the hot spot. Once you move from neutral territory to the “lie zone,” you should be able to observe a change in body language, facial expressions, eye movement, and sentence structure.
- Watch body language. Liars often pull their bodies inward when lying to make themselves feel smaller and less noticeable. Many people will become squirmy and sometimes conceal their hands to subconsciously hide fidgety fingers.
- Observe micro-facial expressions. People will often give away a lie in their facial expressions, but some of these facial expressions are subtle and difficult to spot.
Jul 2, 2021 · A lot of the time when we say things like “Karma is a bitch”, what we usually mean is that when somebody has done something wrong they will get their comeuppance. But karma is actually about our actions and not our fate.
May 31, 2013 · The Quick Solution. So how do you deal with this kind of behaviour? The solution is to make them look stupid instead without lowering yourself. This should be easy: after all, bitchiness is pretty stupid to begin with. And that should be your weapon.
