1. express or feel sympathy or pity; sympathize: "she went over to commiserate with Rose on her unfortunate circumstances"
▪ feel or express pity for (someone):"she did not exult in her rival's fall, but, on the contrary, commiserated her"
Word Originlate 16th century: from Latin commiserat- ‘commiserated’, from the verb commiserari, from com- ‘with’ + miserari ‘to lament’ (from miser ‘wretched’).